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How To Get Unstuck: Lesson #6

Here's a quick reminder of the lessons I learned so far about getting unstuck.

 

Learning 1: Stop fighting it and accept whatever situation is keeping me stuck.

Learning 2: I already know what the next step is.

Learning 3: Get out of the rut before I fall in a trench!

Learning 4: I am responsible for me.

Learning 5: The Universe has my back, so trust my instincts, trust my inner knowing!

 

You can read deeper explanations about these in my series of articles entitled How to Get Unstuck, but for now let me share with you a massive 'A-ha!' that I hope will give you a more practical understanding and use of the concept many seem to share without really understanding what they're saying, i.e.'make choices from where you want to be rather than where you are'.

 

I like being busy, having something to do; so while I was dealing with my health issues (refer to the previous articles on How To Get Unstuck for more info) and not in a position to work for someone else I started looking around for something to do that could fit in with my health challenges.

 

My confidence was low so when a friend suggested starting a inventory company I jumped at it. She was a go-getter, loved going out and getting the deals, and she figured I'd do the work behind the scenes. It seemed a perfect match. It wasn't. I was happy to let her drive the business initially but as I became well my confidence returned along with my own go-getter inclinations. Sadly, things got way out of shape ending a friendship I valued very much.

 

Often when I'm stuck I tend to act from a place of low confidence and worth, and so my decisions are based on fear or a diminished view of myself that will always end up in me getting stuck again. So learning no. 6 is 'before making a choice, step into my vision of who I want to be, the self-confident, self-loving me, and then decide from a place of openness and self-belief'. By openness I mean that feeling you have when you are happy and confident and you believe in yourself and the possibilities in front of you.

 

Next Steps: Stand up for a minute and remember a time when you felt confident and sure of yourself, probably in a situation that is so normal to you that you don't realise you're confident and sure of yourself (like arguing with a sibling!) or perhaps it was a talk you did as far back as school that went really well. Pick anything as long as the feeling of confidence and sureness was there. Stand up as if you're in that moment. Feel how you felt then. Stay in the feeling of confidence you had then. Now remember that moment next time you want to make a choice and ask yourself 'What would that girl/ woman choose?' (Clearly if you're a man you'd phrase that differently!)

 

In How to Get Unstuck: Lesson #7 I discover the hidden traps that are keeping me stuck and only Melanie's devastating gift freed me so I could learn my next lesson.

 

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I love reading your feedback so please do take a moment to share the personal a-ha's this article has raised for you, and what you are going to do differently as a result, in the comments below.

 

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Want to know more?

 

Other articles in the series of What I Learned About How To Get Unstuck are

Lesson 1&2

Lesson 4&5
Lesson 3

Lesson 7

Lesson 8

 

Also check-out this article: When Overwhelm Stops You & How to Deal With It

 

Also, there are a number of live video recordings on the Hands-on-Business Facebook page where I go into greater detail about different aspects of your life purpose, showing up, your business and what is in your hands and fingerprints.
 

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I'm Helen Elizabeth Evans, a London based life purpose coach and consultant. I work with women in business (and open-minded men!) to powerfully awaken their life purpose work, using a unique combination of scientific hand and fingerprint analysis, deep intuitive skills and practical business acumen running my own businesses for the last 21 years.

 

I'd love to start a conversation about whether we're a good fit to work together. Simply use this link to arrange an informal chat. There's no hard sell. Just a warm, down-to-earth conversation and a straight forward, honest assessment of whether working with me would be right for you.

 

ABOUT ME

 

I have been running my own businesses from a home office since 1996 and am passionate about business being the vehicle for our freedom. I am also deeply passionate about us each having a purpose on this planet and it's my job to help you find and live yours. I am known as the UK's No.1 Scientific Hand & Fingerprint Analyst as I introduced the system to the UK in 2010. It is the most accurate profiling tool I have encountered. I also have a masters in NLP and have studied astrology and psychology for years - getting your mind to work for you rather than against you!

 

My clients tell me I am a powerful kick-starter for their purpose, helping them clarify their focus and create an inspired vision aligned with their purpose. They describe me as a highly intuitive, deeply powerful, passionate, authentic and an extremely practical truth teller who makes them laugh, feel safe and free to be their true selves. I help them discover who they really are, find their true purpose, give them a spiritual blueprint for their life expression and help them create a business that is based on their life purpose, so that they can live happy, fulfilled lives without feeling like its all a struggle or just hum drum.

 

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