Are you struggling to see the right way ahead for you?
If you're anything like me you'd so much prefer to know where you are going and how you are going to get there.
Pity life doesn't work like that! Darn. Lol!
We keep seeking clarity. We keep wanting to know. We try to understand. We keep slipping into thinking, thinking mode.
No surprise really given that our education focuses on our thinking skills, maybe a little on our creative skills but definitely not on our emotional skills, nor our intuitive skills.
The thing is thinking, our brain, our logic is simply one of our tools. It isn't who we are and cannot have all the answers. It is just too limited, too dependant on having all the facts.
This is what you can do:
1. Get clear on your PURPOSE, what you love, what gives you a sense of meaning and what leaves you feeling fulfilled.
2. Know what you VALUE in various areas of your life, e.g. in your friendships you may value integrity, respect, kindness and use that as a basis for your decision making in that area.
3. Know what really PISSES YOU OFF, the stuff that makes your blood boil. Notice what you are continually talking about. Those are the areas where you need to do your work in this world.
4. Based on your answers to 1,2 and 3 come up with some KEY THINGS you'd like to work towards, resolve, make a difference in whether that's personally, in your local area, worldwide or some other area.
5. Now ask yourself what the FIRST STEP is on the road to what you are working towards. Take that step.
6. Having taken that step, you probably already know what the NEXT ONE is, so take it.
7. Never worry about 10 steps ahead. Plan no more than 3 steps ahead. Things change, and your steps to get where you're going may need to change with them, so just FOCUS ON NOW and doing what you can now.
You cannot control everything going on around you and all those 'everythings' will affect your goal or intention so just focus on what you can impact right now.
Don't worry that the path ahead is murky or unclear.
It's like that because the future hasn't been created yet.
Step onto your path, no matter how misty the way ahead is and trust that if you take action and step forward one step at a time the steps ahead will reveal themselves as you move forward.
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Also, there are a number of live video recordings on the Hands-on-Business Facebook page where I go into greater detail about different aspects of your life purpose, showing up, your business and what is in your hands and fingerprints.
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I'm Helen Elizabeth Evans, a London based life purpose coach and consultant. I work with women in business (and open-minded men!) to powerfully awaken their life purpose work, using a unique combination of scientific hand and fingerprint analysis, deep intuitive skills and practical business acumen running my own businesses for the last 21 years.
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I have been running my own businesses from a home office since 1996 and am passionate about business being the vehicle for our freedom. I am also deeply passionate about us each having a purpose on this planet and it's my job to help you find and live yours. I am known as the UK's No.1 Scientific Hand & Fingerprint Analyst as I introduced the system to the UK in 2010. It is the most accurate profiling tool I have encountered. I also have a masters in NLP and have studied astrology and psychology for years - getting your mind to work for you rather than against you!
My clients tell me I am a powerful kick-starter for their purpose, helping them clarify their focus and create an inspired vision aligned with their purpose. They describe me as a highly intuitive, deeply powerful, passionate, authentic and an extremely practical truth teller who makes them laugh, feel safe and free to be their true selves. I help them discover who they really are, find their true purpose, give them a spiritual blueprint for their life expression and help them create a business that is based on their life purpose, so that they can live happy, fulfilled lives without feeling like its all a struggle or just hum drum.