Do you ever sit there and quietly freak out about what the future is going to be like for you?
You know - things like having to give up what you're doing because it isn't working and go get a day job, working for someone else again. The thought of it! Ugh. You so don't want to even go there.
Or perhaps you'll be stuck exactly where you are, with the same feeling of nothing really changing, wondering how on Earth you got here; all those dreams and aspirations unfulfilled, your sense of having something special to offer the world slowly leaking out of you...
Personally I hate going to those dark places and wallowing in the nasty fears we have stuck away in the shadowy recesses of our minds, but sometimes it's good to take a good look and acknowledge them. Right now they are just fears. They aren't real - yet! But they could become our reality if we don't make some changes.
So what can we do?
The first thing to face is "if you keep doing the same thing, you'll keep getting the same result", so make some changes. What can you change?
Could you get up half an hour earlier to write?
Could you go to bed earlier so you get more sleep?
Could you create a routine for yourself where you walk for at least 30 minutes a day, or instead of sitting on the sofas to chat to your friends could you 'walk and talk'?
Could you take a class in something you've always wanted to learn to do?
Could you join a group that inspires you and encourages you?
What can you do differently?
The only person who knows that is you. If you're not sure then set the intention to simply start noticing what you're doing, how you are thinking, how you are responding to situations and people. And then, notice what the knock on effect of that action/ thinking/ response is. No judgement. Just notice.
That's all you need to do. Notice without berating yourself or feeding your unworthiness. Once you see what is happening you'll find a way to start making the changes you need to... and once you start taking action to makes changes the voice echoing those nasty fears will get quieter and less intrusive (especially if you imagine that voice as something ridiculous like Donald Duck!)
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