I was a bit stunned recently listening to someone I know giving someone else an angry 'lecture' on how this person didn't seem to get the limitations she was under in terms of her job and those she worked for. The truth was she was feeling trapped and angry by what she saw as the limits of what was possible for her and was projecting her feelings around it onto the person who had "pushed that button" for her - not that she realised that. She was so sure she was right! I forgo

Are you a planner? You know... goals, focus, detail. Or are you more of a go with the flow person; you like to just see what happens and react accordingly? I've tried both, initially both make me feel great but ultimately neither work for me. (Stay with me I'll explain the relevance of the carrots...). Focusing on a goal or on the details tends to drain me of any inspiration and my work starts to feel like an uphill struggle. I get tired quickly. Going with the flow, taking a