I was a bit stunned recently listening to someone I know giving someone else an angry 'lecture' on how this person didn't seem to get the limitations she was under in terms of her job and those she worked for. The truth was she was feeling trapped and angry by what she saw as the limits of what was possible for her and was projecting her feelings around it onto the person who had "pushed that button" for her - not that she realised that. She was so sure she was right! I forgo

Sometimes it's hard to be yourself in this world. My earliest memory is one of wonder. Like all babies I liked my toes, and then when they were encased in a pair of baby sandals where each strap was a different colour, I was riveted. So impressed was I by these fabulous colours all together in one place that the memory imprinted itself into my brain and has never faded. Looking back at pictures I realised that I was about 8 months old at the time. For me to have a memory from