I was a bit stunned recently listening to someone I know giving someone else an angry 'lecture' on how this person didn't seem to get the limitations she was under in terms of her job and those she worked for. The truth was she was feeling trapped and angry by what she saw as the limits of what was possible for her and was projecting her feelings around it onto the person who had "pushed that button" for her - not that she realised that. She was so sure she was right! I forgo

When you what you are trying to do goes awry thru no fault of yours... Here's a story that I hope will inspire you to find your solution