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3 Key Behaviours Of A Crutch-Seeker

 

Do you have this feeling inside yourself of just not being satisfied, of being just not quite happy?

 

You know you're not performing at the level you should be, either personally or professionally.

 

Do you find yourself putting your time (and possibly your money too) in one thing, then another, then another, but none of them really work for you? 

 

You're investing in yourself through time, energy and money, so why don't any of the things you invest in work for you?

 

Everyone else raves about them but you just end up feeling disappointed, maybe even guilty because you can't make the same investments pay off for you.

 

Are you constantly trawling Facebook, seeming to randomly look at what everyone else is up to or under the guise of 'getting noticed on social media', but in truth it just distracts you and makes you feel worse about yourself?

 

You just want to feel better about your life and your business; you feel so unsupported.

 

Somehow no matter what you try, nothing is quite right.

 

You're not alone.

 

What matters though is what you do in response to how you feel. The feelings themselves don't make you a crutch-seeker, it's your behaviour in response that does.

 

This is what a crutch-seeker would do:

 

1. Focus on their problem. Wallow in their self-pity.

2. Look for a reason why it is okay to stay exactly where they are.

3. Seek 'solutions' from others, then blame them when they don't get a solution.

 

Is this you? Is this your client?

 

Perhaps not. Sometimes it is hard to see how behaviour can fit those 3 points above because as crutch-seekers we can disguise this behaviour, dress it up, make it all so plausible and reasonable.

 

Do you recognise any of these scenarios:

  • You tend to notice what's missing, what you're not getting right, what others are doing better, rather than what you have going for you, what you do well?

 

  • You invest in something with full intention of fixing the issue you have, but then get distracted from doing the work you are asked to do? Other people need you, you don't have enough time to get everything done, you don't know enough to do what needs to be done, you have technical issues... lots of 'valid' reasons.

 

  • You find yourself investing time, energy or money into working with another person and then expect them to 'fix' your problems, and when they don't you blame them for promising you something they didn't deliver?

 

Any of these things happening once is completely valid, but what I would love you to think about is whether these things are your pattern. Do they happen consistently for you?

 

If these things happen to you over and over again, they are crutch-seeking behaviours. You are avoiding taking charge of your life, being responsible and powerful in it. You are choosing scenarios that give you the opportunity to repeat these behaviours.

 

So... Reassess. Stop acting on stuff constantly. Stop doing for the sake of it. Notice your behaviour.  Notice the types of things you choose. 

 

Ask yourself how you can do, be and choose differently so you can get different results for the time, energy and money you invest in yourself.

 

(Or... consider that at a deep level you don't really want to do what you are trying to do?)

 

 

 

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Check-out the video I created over on the Hands-on-Business Facebook page Be Powerful in Your Own Life. I also do a LIVE video every Wednesday at 6.30pm BST where I go into greater detail about different aspects of your life purpose, showing up, your business and what is in your hands and fingerprints.
 

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I'm Helen Elizabeth Evans, a London based life purpose coach and consultant. I work with women in business (and open-minded men!) to powerfully awaken their life purpose work, using a unique combination of scientific hand and fingerprint analysis, deep intuitive skills and practical business acumen running my own businesses for the last 21 years.

 

I'd love to start a conversation about whether we're a good fit to work together. Simply use this link to arrange an informal chat. There's no hard sell. Just a warm, down-to-earth conversation and a straight forward, honest assessment of whether working with me would be right for you.

 

ABOUT ME

 

I have been running my own businesses from a home office since 1996 and am passionate about business being the vehicle for our freedom. I am also deeply passionate about us each having a purpose on this planet and it's my job to help you find and live yours. I am known as the UK's No.1 Scientific Hand & Fingerprint Analyst as I introduced the system to the UK in 2010. It is the most accurate profiling tool I have encountered. I also have a masters in NLP and have studied astrology and psychology for years - getting your mind to work for you rather than against you!

 

My clients tell me I am a powerful kick-starter for their purpose, helping them clarify their focus and create an inspired vision aligned with their purpose. They describe me as a highly intuitive, deeply powerful, passionate, authentic and an extremely practical truth teller who makes them laugh, feel safe and free to be their true selves. I help them discover who they really are, find their true purpose, give them a spiritual blueprint for their life expression and help them create a business that is based on their life purpose, so that they can live happy, fulfilled lives without feeling like its all a struggle or just hum drum.

 

If you want to powerfully kick start your life purpose then book in a call with me. At the very least, you'll leave the call inspired and focused. You can create a life that you love, one that leaves you feeling inspired and delighted every day.

 

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