How To Get Unstuck: Lesson #3
Following on from my first article in this series on How To Get Unstuck: Lesson #1&2 where I shared with you 2 key learnings of how to move forward more easily:
Learning 1: Stop fighting it and accept whatever situation is keeping me stuck.
Learning 2: I already know what the next step is. I'm still learning this lesson, repeatedly, as ignoring it still gets me stuck occasionally.
In this article is a learning that is so important for everyone to get, because it'll help you avoid getting yourself into a worse situation than you might be in right now!
A truly noteworthy time in my 'stuckness' lessons was when I developed strange physical fits and a heaviness in my left arm that mystified the doctors, leaving me feeling I couldn't trust myself or my body, that I had no control and left me unable to continue in my corporate career.
Ever felt that kind of fear? Was it a brain tumour? Was it an aneurysm? Was I going to die? Wow, that changes you. Not for the better in my case. I let the fear get a stranglehold on me!It meant I couldn't continue working in a job as who knew when I'd have another shaking fit. Part of me was relieved as I'd been resisting my discomfort in the general corporate environment, but I'd kept doing it because that was what I knew and I was worried about my financial security plus I had no idea what else I was meant to do anyway so I 'stuck' with being sensible.
Look what sensible did for me: It was like I'd fallen out of an uncomfortable shallow, but secure, rut into a mega trench of fear-driven inertia!
Learning no. 3 was 'get out of the rut before you fall in a trench'! Need I say more? We get stuck when we resist our inner feelings, callings, knowings or whatever you want to call them. Resisting them builds up in your physical body until it starts getting ill - in my case it started have literal fits about the situation I was forcing myself to remain in out of fears around my financial security. Seriously. Health is way more important. If something isn't working for you, find a way to change it before you get ill.
Next Steps: What's going on for you right now that you are resisting or avoiding or pretending isn't an issue but deep down you know it is?
Follow the lessons I've picked up along with way in my next article on How To Get Unstuck: Lesson #4&5, so you can be sure to avoid them too.
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Other articles in the series of What I Learned About How To Get Unstuck are
Lesson 4&5 Lesson 6
Also check-out this article: When Overwhelm Stops You & How to Deal With It
Also, there are a number of live video recordings on the Hands-on-Business Facebook page where I go into greater detail about different aspects of your life purpose, showing up, your business and what is in your hands and fingerprints.
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